Code of Conduct for Parents and Spectators
1. As spectators we will refrain from booing or yelling at officials at any time during a match because we are aware of the following:
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Such behavior reflects on our part sets a poor example of sportsmanship.
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Such behavior reflects negatively on our community, our team, our players and us.
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Most youth soccer officials have had limited experience and formal training and do the best job they can, given these limitations.
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Most soccer officials make correct calls even though we sometimes see the incident otherwise.
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If officials do make incorrect calls during a match, the following circumstances usually apply:
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The number of poor calls usually balances out for both teams.
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No one is perfect
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The officials don't have the same observation point afforded the spectators sitting in the bleachers.
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An occasional incorrect call seldom affects the outcome of a match.
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There are more effective channels for correcting poor officiating than verbal abuse during the match.
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We don't really know how difficult it is to officiate a soccer match until we've run on the 'pitch' in the official's 'boots'.
2. During a match we will refrain from yelling at players on either team because we are aware of the following:
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They are young people, not soccer professionals, who, due to limited playing experience and great enthusiasm, may make mistakes.
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Encouragement and praise should be made in public; constructive criticism is best made in private.
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The coach is the best equipped to analyze and correct deficiencies in soccer skills. Our attempts to be helpful in this respect may only confuse the players.
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The golden rule applies. Treat other players with the courtesy, respect and consideration, which we want other supporters to show our own players.